Grace Capsule

Category: travel

  • Serenity in Kyoto

    Serenity in Kyoto

    Kyoto, Japan

    Visiting Kyoto was a memorable experience filled with history, charm, and delicious food. Known as Japan’s cultural capital, Kyoto is home to over 1,600 temples, each whispering stories of emperors, monks, and centuries-old rituals. Whether you’re wandering down lantern-lit alleys or sipping matcha in a traditional teahouse, Kyoto offers a unique blend of old-world elegance and modern convenience.

    Helpful Apps

    Traveling via bus is the most common in Kyoto. Make sure to download the Suica app to use as your bus card!


    Google Maps is the best and most common way to get around. The times are accurate with Kyoto’s buses!

    Food

    What really surprised me was Kyoto’s unexpectedly multicultural food scene. My first meal there? A burger — and honestly, it tasted just like something I’d order back in the States — juicy, flavorful, and absolutely delicious. Beyond burgers, I discovered Kyoto offers a wide range of cuisines, from hearty pasta dishes to fragrant Thai curries. Of course, I couldn’t skip trying ramen — and despite being picky about my ramen, I have to say it was surprisingly good! I also tried a traditional Japanese meal served in small portions across multiple dishes. While nothing particularly stood out, everything was fresh, well-prepared, and enjoyable!

    Activities

    There’s no shortage of things to see and do in Kyoto, but I’m only going to highlight what I really think is worth checking out. While some might recommend places like the Arashiyama Bamboo Forest, I personally found it a bit underwhelming. It’s a rather short walk, and aside from the bamboos themselves, there’s not much else to see — so it may not be as impressive as some expect.

    1. Gion (Old Neighborhood)

    One place I do recommend exploring is Gion, Kyoto’s famous geisha district. It’s an old neighborhood that can be tricky to find, but you’ll know you’re there once you stumble upon a narrow alleyway lined with tall wooden buildings and sliding doors. Walking through Gion feels like stepping back in time. The area is filled with restaurants, but beware — it’s a bit of a tourist trap, so prices tend to be higher, and the food may not always be as authentic as some of Kyoto’s hidden gems.

    1. Fushimi Inari Shrine 

    Another must-see is the Fushimi Inari Shrine, an impressive walk through what feels like hundreds of shrines. Each shrine is lined up closely against the next, with characters inscribed on them indicating when and why they were constructed. It’s a peaceful and unique walk, unlike anything you’d typically see elsewhere. However, be warned — it can get super congested, with crowds of people making their way through. To avoid the heavy foot traffic, try to visit as early as possible.

    1. Nishiki Market + Teramachi Shopping 
    Nishiki Market
    Teramachi Shopping

    If you’re looking for a more casual stroll, Nishiki Market and Teramachi Shopping Street are worth a visit. As an Asian-American, I didn’t personally have anything I wanted to eat or buy at either place, but it’s still a nice walk to see what locals sell and to people-watch. Since both spots are close to each other, checking out both is easy and worthwhile.

    Scenery

    Beyond the landmarks and food, Kyoto’s scenery itself is something special. The city offers a unique blend of nature and urban life — one moment you’re surrounded by serene gardens and riverside paths, and the next you’re back in bustling streets filled with shops and cafes. For a major city, it is definitely one of the most peaceful and quiet cities I have ever visited. This mix of old and new, quiet and busy, gives Kyoto a charm that’s hard to describe but easy to appreciate. 

    Lifestyle

    One thing I really appreciated about Kyoto was how safe I felt traveling there as an Asian female. Even when I was alone, I never felt uneasy or worried. The peaceful atmosphere and respectful culture made it incredibly easy to relax and fully enjoy my surroundings. I often found myself strolling through quiet streets at night without a second thought, something I wouldn’t feel as comfortable doing in every city. Locals were polite, and even busy areas felt calm and orderly. Interestingly, I felt like I had a better experience with the locals than even while in Tokyo! To read about my Tokyo experience, click here!


  • Flying Qatar Airways Business Class: A Dream Come True

    Flying Qatar Airways Business Class: A Dream Come True

    In 2024, Qatar Airlines ranked as the #1 airline in the world. So YOU KNOW I was grinning from ear to ear having the chance to fly business class with them for the first time. From the second I stepped on board, I knew this flight was going to be different. The cabin felt sleek, modern, and honestly, way more spacious than I expected. The moment I settled into my seat, I couldn’t help but beam — this was next-level comfort.

    The Seat: Spacious, Comfy, and Perfect for Tall Folks

    Let’s talk about the seat because, wow. It’s massive. You can completely stretch your legs out — and I mean fully. Even if you’re over 6 feet tall, you won’t feel cramped. The cushioning is plush, and the seat easily reclines all the way into a flatbed when you’re ready to snooze. You can even close the door entirely so that you have complete privacy. Honestly, it felt like I had my own little cocoon in the sky. 

    Luxe Amenities: They’ve Thought of Everything

    Qatar Airways Business Class doesn’t just hand you a blanket and call it a day. Nope, they go all out. You get a cozy change of clothes (perfect for slipping into something more comfortable), soft slippers, a thick, plush blanket, and two pillows. They even provide a gorgeous Diptyque amenities kit — think luxe skincare and fragrance to keep you feeling fresh the entire flight.

    Extra Space Galore


    If you’re like me and love having your things nearby, you’ll appreciate the thoughtful storage design. There’s a dedicated table for your purse, plus a pull-out table for dining or working on your laptop. There’s even a convenient storage compartment right next to your seat — no awkward bending or fumbling around mid-flight.

    Dining Like You’re at a 5-Star Restaurant

    This isn’t your typical airplane meal. Qatar Airways Business Class is fancy. The flight attendants set up your table with a tablecloth, candle, and condiments before bringing out beautifully plated dishes. You can order anything from their extensive menu — and there’s a separate drink menu, too. Champagne? Wine? Cocktails? They’ve got it all. And the best part? You can order food at any time throughout the flight. Midnight snack? No problem. I definitely took advantage of this perk. 

    Sleeping in the Clouds

    When you’re ready to sleep, the flight attendants work their magic. They’ll transform your seat into a fully flat bed, complete with bedsheets for extra comfort. It’s like having your own mini hotel room in the sky — and trust me, you’ll wake up feeling refreshed.

    Final Thoughts

    Flying Qatar Airways Business Class is more than just a flight — it’s an experience. Whether you’re traveling for work or treating yourself to some well-deserved luxury, this is 100% worth it. So if you’re debating that upgrade — girl, trust me, go for it. Your future self will thank you, and you will feel refreshed like never before after a flight.


  • Visiting the Richest Country in the Middle East- Qatar

    Visiting the Richest Country in the Middle East- Qatar

    Doha, Qatar

    Lost in the dazzling skyline and the scent of karak tea, I’ve found myself completely obsessed with Doha! From souq adventures to beachside dinners, this city is a wild mix of tradition and futuristic glam. Qatar is unforgettable! 

    Helpful Apps

    Google Maps was accurate and help for going around Doha.

    Uber is reliable and one of the easiest way to get around!

    Talabat is a super easy-to-use app to have whatever you need delivered to your door.

    Food

    Doha’s food scene is solid—lots of Mediterranean and Middle Eastern flavors, with all the hummus, grilled meats, and fragrant rice dishes you could ask for. I tried everything from fancy Qatari seafood to hyped-up international spots, but nothing really blew my mind or had me dreaming about it afterward. At the end of the day, I kept circling back to the classics—shawarma and kebabs—because sometimes, the simple stuff just hits best!

    Activities

    1. National Museum of Qatar

    The National Museum of Qatar is jaw-dropping with its desert rose-inspired design making it one of the most futuristic buildings I’ve ever seen. The architecture alone is a masterpiece, with sharp, interlocking discs that feel like they’re defying gravity. Step inside, and it’s not just a museum—it’s a full-on immersive experience, with massive screens, interactive exhibits, and soundscapes that pull you right into Qatar’s history and culture. From ancient Bedouin life to the country’s insane transformation into a modern powerhouse, every room makes you feel like you’re traveling through time. Whether you’re a history buff or just here for the aesthetics, this place is next-level!

    1. Souq Waaif (Marketplace)

    Souq Waqif is hands-down one of the most vibrant spots in Doha, especially at night when the whole place comes alive with music, laughter, and the scent of sizzling kebabs in the air. Wandering through the maze-like alleys, you’ll find everything from colorful spices and handcrafted jewelry to traditional Qatari garments. It’s the perfect place to shop for souvenirs, sip on some karak, or just people-watch as street performers and musicians add to the buzzing atmosphere. The energy here is unreal—one minute you’re haggling over a beautifully woven rug, the next you’re stumbling into a café with the best mint lemonade of your life. If you want to experience Doha’s soul, this is where you need to be!

    1. Palace Vendome Mall

    Palace Vendôme Mall is like stepping into a little slice of Europe right in the middle of Doha, with its elegant architecture, grand archways, and a seriously stunning outdoor area. The highlight? A gorgeous fountain that lights up at night, making the whole place feel like a scene from a romantic movie. Inside, it’s all about luxury, with high-end brands, fancy cafés, and marble-clad everything, but the real magic is just strolling outside, soaking in the Parisian vibes. Whether you’re here to shop, sip coffee by the water, or just pretend you’ve been transported to a European palace, this mall is easily one of the most beautiful spots in the city!

    1. Katara Village 

    Katara Cultural Village is this super charming spot by the water, mixing tradition and modernity in the coolest way. The highlight is definitely the massive amphitheater—this grand, open-air space that looks like something out of ancient Greece, but with Doha’s skyline in the background. As you wander around, you’ll find art galleries, cute cafés, and little pathways leading to hidden courtyards, all with a perfect view of the waterfront. Whether you’re catching a live performance, checking out an art exhibit, or just enjoying the sea breeze, Katara has this peaceful-yet-lively vibe that makes it one of the best places to explore in Doha!

    Scenery

    The scenery in Doha is honestly such a vibe—it’s like you’re living in two different worlds at once. On one side, you’ve got the sleek, shiny skyscrapers that make the city look super futuristic, and on the other, there’s the old-world charm with traditional souqs, palm trees, and the quiet elegance of the desert in the background. It’s this beautiful mix of old and new—where you can sip coffee in a modern café with a view of a centuries-old mosque or catch the sunset by the futuristic skyline while strolling through a historic market. It’s the perfect blend of tradition and innovation, and I’m absolutely obsessed with how they coexist here!

    Lifestyle

    Qatar’s lifestyle is super modern but also really conservative, and it definitely takes some getting used to. They’re strict about clothing, behavior, and public conduct, especially if you’re not used to the whole “modesty” vibe. This means that girls shouldn’t wear shorts or skirts or tops that show their shoulders; no displays of affection in public (even hugging or holding hands can be offensive); no swearing or making rude gestures; and definitely no public intoxication. Some of these offenses can lead to fines or imprisonment!  

    When I visited during Ramadan, I had to adjust fast—restaurants and cafés were closed until the evening, and it was actually illegal to eat or drink in public during the daytime. You could totally feel the quiet respect for the holiday, but it was also a bit tricky because I’m so used to grabbing a quick bite anytime. It’s all about being respectful of the local customs, which I totally get, but it’s definitely something to keep in mind when you’re out and about.

    Also, during this trip, I was truly taken aback by the kindness of the people there. Everywhere I went, I felt safe and welcomed, with the locals going out of their way to make sure I was comfortable. However, as I was traveling with my husband, I did notice something that stood out. It seemed like, more often than not, people would address him first, even when it came to matters that directly involved me. It was as though they didn’t acknowledge me unless he was involved in the conversation. While I knew it was part of the cultural norm, it still felt a little strange, almost as if my voice didn’t matter as much without his presence. Despite this, the overall warmth of the people left a positive impression on me, and I appreciated the hospitality they showed us.

  • Exploring Istanbul as a Korean-American Female

    Exploring Istanbul as a Korean-American Female

    Istanbul, Turkiye

    Istanbul is like no other city in the world. LITERALLY. It is the only city in the world that straddles two continents. The Bosphorus Strait divides the city into a European and Asian side. This unique blend makes Istanbul a place where you could spend countless days, and still feel like it’s not enough!

    Helpful Apps

    Use Uber to get around because many taxi drivers will try to scam tourists!

    Google Maps is the best and most common app to use to get around.

    Yemeksepeti is a great app for when you’re feeling tired or lazy to go out because you can just order food right to your door!

    Getir is a similar app to Yemeksepeti except it’s for ordering grocery items!

    Food

    Iszlak Burger
    Durum
    Simit

    As you explore Istanbul, it’s very common to find people selling various types of food and snacks on carts. Almost at every corner, there’s a cart selling Simit (i.e., a bagel-like bread with various seeds), Durums (i.e., Turkish wraps), or Islak Burgers (e.g., a greasy, wet burger). However, I do not recommend eating from these carts! If it’s late at night and you’re drunk, then maybe; but for me, they were either too salty or stale or unappetizing. Istanbul has so many good restaurants around that I’d recommend going there instead of a cart for a quick bite! Some dishes that I still dream about include…

    1. Gozleme

    This dish is similar to the Mexican “quesadilla.” On a thin flatbread, meat, spices, and veggies are stuffed and sealed. It bursts with some much flavor; it’s crispy on the outside and soft on the inside. It can work as a snack or meal. It’s a dish that can’t go wrong for any foreigners.  

    1. Iskender

    Iskender is thinly sliced meat over a bed of bread with tomatoes and yogurt. If you want, you can ask for rice on the side as well. This was a dish I unexpectedly loved. It seems basic and some may argue, does not look too appetizing. However, all the components of the dish work so well together. The meat is savory; the yogurt is tarty; the tomato is sweet; and other sides like jalapenos or pickles can add an extra sharpness to the overall taste that I extremely enjoyed.  

    1. Midye Dolmas

    I saved the BEST FOR LAST. Midye Dolmas were my absolute favorite throughout the whole trip. I loved it so much that while I was there, I researched if California had restaurants that sell a similar dish. There wasn’t. So I ate AS MUCH OF IT AS I POSSIBLY COULD. These are stuffed mussels with herbed rice, pine nuts, currants, and spices. It comes in a variety of flavors, and I was eating it all in BUCKETS FULLS. One caveat is to be careful not to eat this from a cart vendor because there’s a risk of food poisoning! This is one dish that I heavily emphasize eating at a sit-down restaurant!

    Activities

    1. Bazaars

    Bazaars are everywhere in Istanbul, and they are of all different sizes. These indoor marketplaces can be enormous and take hours to walk through while others can be smaller and quick. Most of them are fairly similar in the overall vibe and items that are sold (although some may focus more on spices and food while others are material goods). 

    However, these bazaars are mostly known for selling knock-off designer goods. They have everything from luxury shoes, clothes, bags, and accessories. An insider tip is to never purchase a luxury good that’s inside the bazaar! Apparently that’s where the “lower quality” dupes are. Instead, tell the seller that you want something that is higher quality. They will have someone take you to a showroom outside of the bazaar where where the walls are completely plastered with “the best” designer fakes (which day call “clones”). I was able to witness this place, but as someone who owns authentic luxury goods, I spotted some major discrepancies with certain brands. I would say that about half of the items did an incredible job at cloning while the other half were inconsistent in either color, logo, or details. 

    Going through these bazaars can be quite overwhelming given the number of people and how much the sellers try to persuade you. At certain points, I did feel very overstimulated and needed to get away to preserve my peace. It can be a fun experience, but it can feel very mentally draining given the number of people who try to upsell! Another insider tip is to NEVER buy from the first place you enter because that’s usually where it’s the most expensive, and HAGGLE like your life depends on it because all prices here can be adjusted. 

    1. Reserve a Tour to See Mosques/Palaces/Historical Monuments

    Istanbul also has insanely bewildering mosques, museums, and more. There is so much to see that I recommend reserving a tour! This is helpful for several reasons. First, since there’s so much to explore, it’s best to go with someone who knows the area and take you from place to place. Second, many of these places will have stupidly long lines. However, if you go with a tour, you can skip all of that! Lastly, the tour guide is super informative and provides much more detailed information that makes touring these places more fun. We booked our tour from GetYourGuide and visited Hagia Sophia, Topkapi Palace, and Basilica Cistern. We had a fantastic time and loved our guide!

    1. Take a Ferry to Prince’s Island

    The city can be loud and even a bit overbearing, so take a ferry one day to Prince’s Island to escape all the chatter! The ferry ride takes about an hour and a half; it’s not anything particularly special, but it’s nice to enjoy the view of the waters. However, once you get to the island, make sure to rent a bike! The vendor will usually also provide a map of how to get around, and there is so much to see and do! You’ll come across all different types of animals like horses, tortoises, and hell of a lot of cats. There’s also interesting buildings like the dilapidated Principe Greek Orthodox Orphanage which was the largest wooden building in Europe and the 2nd largest in the world as well as the Yorgi Church. If you’re hungry, you can stop by Buyukade Borek & Pasta Firini which is a 70 year old bakery on the island that has friendly staff and delicious Borek!

    Scenery

    Due to the influence of European and Asian cultures, there is such a unique blend of architecture and decor throughout the city. From the European influence, there are grand buildings and churches with large windows and ornate facades. From the Asian influence, there are mosques with large, massive domes and mosaics throughout. It’s interesting and wonderful to see the juxtaposition of these two cultures throughout the city. 


    Unfortunately, there is also a lot of pollution. So much so that you can visibly see a dark cloud surrounding the city. Even while on the ferry, I noticed a layer of oil spread throughout the water. Due to the pollution, my eyes would get dry and I would regularly cough. This is something to keep in mind for anyone traveling here if you’re sensitive to air quality!

    Lifestyle

    The first sight I saw when I landed in Istanbul was a boy who looked to be 10-years-old smoking a cigarette. I was stunned because no one around him seemed to mind. I then realized that everyone and their mother had a cigarette at hand. Smoking is as common as drinking water here, so be prepared to reek of smoke! 

    Nevertheless, the Turkish people are overall very chill. They remind me of a “cool aunt” who lets their little nephew do whatever they want. The people seem easygoing and fun. The nightlife here is huge with streets sprawling with people blasting music and laughing on the weekends. 

    My only warning though is to be careful in very touristy areas because they will upsell like CRAZY. I had an incident where I was approached by someone who was trying to help me with directions, but ended up having me go to several different stores that were his “family’s” to sell me all kinds of goods like jewelry, art, and clothes… This incident lasted HOURS, and I felt more and more deceived as the hours passed. To tourists, I feel like they can take advantage, so be watchful! 

    On a similar note, it’s common for taxis to scam people, so try not to use them if you can! Instead, book a ride through Uber since the price will be accurate through the app!

  • Everyone Loves Tokyo! But Is It a Different Experience for Other Asians?

    Everyone Loves Tokyo! But Is It a Different Experience for Other Asians?

    Tokyo, Japan

    Everyone and their mother raves about Tokyo. As someone who grew up obsessed with Totoro, can eat omakase everyday, and can spend an eternity at a hot spring, I was curious to see how Tokyo would fit me. What could go wrong? 

    Helpful Apps

    Traveling via the subway trains is the most common in Japan. Make sure to download the Suica app to use as your subway card!

    Google Maps is the best and most common way to get around. The times are accurate with Japan’s subway trains!

    Line is the most common app for communicating in Japan.

    Food

    FOOD WAS HANDS DOWN THE BEST PART OF THE TRIP. Restaurants of all different price points were extremely satisfying. You could get an onigiri (i.e., a Japanese rice ball wrapped in dried seaweed usually with meat or veggies inside) on the street, go to any ramen house (they are literally plastered everywhere in Tokyo), or find a sushi joint nearby, and most of them would have great quality and taste! However, if I really had to narrow it down, these are some places I would revisit if I went back to Tokyo (and I promise they’re not the typical recommendations you hear everywhere like Ichiran Ramen and Gyukatsu).

    1. Butagumi 

    Although you might hear about Gyukatsu the most for katsu recommendations, IT DOES NOT COMPARE TO BUTAGUMI. This restaurant is a little hole-in-the-wall but has the best and juiciest katsu in town. It’s a smaller restaurant, so not too many people can be seated. However, when I went in December 2024 on a weekday during lunchtime, there was no wait!  The katsu is unlike any other with its crisp outer skin and soft, juicy meat. It has the perfect blend of meaty and fatty. However, keep in mind that they’re strict about wearing strong-scents inside; if it’s too strong, they won’t let you in!

    1. Pacific Bake House 

    Almost daily, I would drink a matcha latte or consume something matcha-related (ice-cream, chocolate, etc.). They were mostly all satisfactory, but Pacific Bake House took their matcha drink to a whole other level. They have a menu with seasonal drinks as well, and it was sooo tempting to try. However, I knew they were famous for their “Strawberry Matcha” drink, so I stuck with that, and am so glad I did! Although, I wish I could’ve tried their other drinks too. In all honesty, I should’ve just got the Stawberry Match with another specialty drink. Their pastries also seemed really popular because it was completely sold out when I arrived in the early evening!  

    1. Sushi Onodera

    This restaurant is a bit of a splurge, but if you need to have at least one nice dinner in Tokyo, it has to be this place! They’ve received the Michel star 13 times. It’s an omakase-style with no more than probably 12 people at the bar, so make sure to make a reservation on their website! The staff is super attentive to the needs of all of the guests. The moment your drink falls below half of the cup, they will immediately refill it. The sous-chefs meticulously cut and prepare all of the ingredients with laser-focus. And the head-chef is personable and involved with the guests, bringing laughter, joy, and knowledge throughout the night. Every inch of the dish is beautifully crafted with every ingredient serving a purpose. Even the fermented ginger was so delicious that I couldn’t stop eating it although it’s only meant to cleanse your palate after each dish. If I could, I would eat omakase here every night!! 

    1. Japanese Snacks at Any Market (like 7/11, Lawson, FamilyMart, etc.)
    Variety Chocolate
    Grape Icecream
    Fruit Jellybeans

    If you don’t already know, the Japanese create snacks SO WELL. Everything from the flavor to the texture is insanely good. Usually with candy, there’s an inextricable artificial flavor that comes with it. However, they’ve somehow mastered replicating the flavors in such a refreshing and pleasurable way. In particular, their flavors that have to do with grapes (like green grapes or purple grapes) are astounding! Help yourself to any of their chocolate, gummies, jelly beans, or ice-cream. I’ve posted pictures above of some of my favorites, and my god, WOW. They were so good. I actually bought 30 bags to take home to treat my friends.

    Activities

    1. Shinjuku Gyeon National Garden

    This is an unexpected, beautiful garden in the middle of Tokyo. Surrounding the area are tall, lush trees and the calm of a flowing pond. This garden is lovely because it really changes with the season. When I went during winter, the leaves were turning orange and red making the atmosphere feel cozy. However, during other seasons like spring, there are cherry blossoms that will set a different tone– probably one of wonder and amazement!  

    1. Senshoji Temple

    There’s a lot of temples in Japan, but if there’s one to visit, it has to be the Senshoji Temple. It’s Tokyo’s oldest temple, established in 645! The temple here is on top of a cliff, overlooking the city. There’s several buildings you can visit, all in different shapes. However, something else that makes this temple fun to visit are the streets surrounding it. It’s occupied by family-owned businesses selling souvenirs, treats, and more. There’s a lot to do in this region. However, it can get extremely pack, so I recommend going as early in the morning as you can!

    1. Nakamise-dori Street 

    Nakamise-dori Street is a long street enveloped by a “tunnel.” You’ll know that you arrived when you enter a building with glass ceilings. Here, you can walk around to eat and shop. They sell all kinds of goods and most of Japan’s most popular snacks. It reminded me of Turkiye’s bazaars but maybe not as hectic. 

    1. Kindal Ginza

    This might not be for everyone, but if you like consignment shopping, JAPAN IS THE PLACE TO DO IT! They sell all kinds of pre-loved luxury items for a fraction of the cost. They verify the authenticity, and the condition is almost immaculate. You can find anything from Rolex watches, designer bags, to off-the-runway pieces. I personally love finding a deal for designer items. However, I know in Japan, it’s frowned upon to buy used items. Maybe that’s why there’s so much merchandise? In American consignment shops, it’s hard to find a decent, luxury item because it’s either out-of-style or flawed. A favorite consignment shop I visited was Kindal Ginza which has multiple locations. I would go around Tokyo visiting these stores. However, if there’s a specific item you’re looking for, just search in your Google Maps app “secondhand” and the item you’re looking for (e.g., “secondhand watch”) and plenty of recommendations will populate!

    Scenery

    Japan is immensely clean, and the people are very mindful of others. It also feels extremely safe even if you’re walking alone at night. There is a beautiful harmony of city, nature, and historic buildings that truly show the development of Japan over the years. Its older buildings use bare wood with sliding doors using translucent paper as a cover. The temples are usually decorated in Japan’s iconic Irimoya roof that slopes down then curves up on the edges and glows of scarlet red. Their newest buildings are like that of most modern-day cities and can either be filled with homes or businesses. 

    Lifestyle

    Personally, as an Asian-American traveling in Japan, I don’t think their lifestyle aligned with my personality. As someone who’s aware of and experiences the differences between eastern and western culture, I felt like the social pressures in Japan were way too strong. I felt inadequate or offensive if I didn’t follow exactly as what everyone else did. At restaurants, even if I asked a simple question of wanting more of a side dish or sauce, it was clear that I was being gluttonous or rude (I’m still not quite sure which one, but I quickly learned to take what they give and NOT ASK FOR ANYTHING MORE.) There were other times where I noticed how chefs would treat Japanese natives entirely differently than other Asians. When I walked into a restaurant, it seemed like they were waiting for me to say something in Japanese, so they knew how to treat me. Otherwise, the treatment we received was a bit off. I can’t complain too much because they were still polite enough, but it didn’t seem genuine and there was a clear difference in treatment. There were a handful more instances, but overall, I felt very restricted in what I could say or do, so I just couldn’t feel truly comfortable.  


  • Turn Up In Taipei

    Turn Up In Taipei

    Taipei, Taiwan

    Boba + Hotpot + Street Food Markets = Taiwan. Right? Or so that’s what I thought. Taiwan unexpectedly boasts some of the liveliest and craziest bar scenes I’ve ever seen. Taiwan is definitely a city that’s more than meets the eye. 

    Helpful Apps

    Uber is common and easy to use in Taiwan if you want to travel by car.

    Google Maps is the best way to get around with accurate train times.

    Metro Taipei is great to use if you want to take the metro! It has all the information from routes to fare costs (but tickets will have to be purchased at the station)!

    Food

    1. Stinky Tofu

    Taipei is known for their night markets, but get ready for some intense and pungent odors! They’re known for their fish balls and especially, their stinky tofu. What is stinky tofu, you ask? It’s fermented tofu that smells like absolute farts. The Taiwanese say this dish is absolutely delicious, but to be honest, I wasn’t too much of a fan. It’s hard to get past the scent, but even afterwards, it seems to be more of an acquired taste. The texture isn’t like the silken and soft tofu; instead, it’s more texturized with various grooves and bumps throughout. On top of that, I’m not too much of a fan of tofu. However, if you are, I highly recommend trying it at least once.

    2. Raohe Night Market

    If stinky tofu is’t your style, then no need to worry because Raohe Night Market offers an assortment of dishes! Everything is available from skewered meats, sweet desserts, and finger food. The choice is yours!

    3. Xin Fu Tang

    If you’re an avid boba lover (and even if you’re not), a must-go location is Xin Fu Tang. This place is wildly popular and as of December 2024, still has super long lines! But don’t worry– it goes by super fast! As someone who grew up drinking boba almost every day, I can say that the Brown Sugar Boba here is amazing! We have this franchise in California, but it does not taste the same. It’s way better in Taiwan. The flavor tastes like a milky ice-cream, but it’s not too overly sweet! I’m also usually very picky about the boba (i.e., the brown tapioca balls at the bottom of the drink) because if it doesn’t have the right texture, it’ll ruin the drink for me. However, the boba here is perfectly chewy and adds additional sweetness to the drink.

    4. Hotpot

    Last but definitely not least, you MUST go to a hotpot restaurant. I don’t care where you go, JUST CHOOSE ANY! I would randomly go into any hotpot restaurant that I saw while roaming the town, and they never failed to satisfy my soul. The typical hotpot restaurant here will usually have a list of different broths to choose from (ranging from sweet to savory to spicy), unlimited toppings, a bar where to create your own dipping sauce, and, my favorite, a desserts bar! The desserts bar can include ice-cream, gelato, or crushed ice drinks– typically something cold to drown the heat of the hotpot.

    Activities

    1. Xingmending Shopping District 

    At the heart of Taipei is Xingmending Shopping District. Here, you’ll be exposed to bright neon lights, foreign smells, sidewalks lined with shops, and streets congested with traffic. It’s a perfect one-stop-shop for getting food, going shopping, and being immersed in Taiwan’s youthful culture. 

    1. Maokong Gondola 
    Gondola ride
    Maokong Tea House
    Famous ice-cream

    The Maokong Gondola is a bit on the outskirts of Taipei because it resides by the mountain range.  The gondola will take you to the peak of the mountain, passing by various temples and statues. The ride itself is very fun because you get a picturesque view of the mountainous terrain against the city view. You can also opt to ride a typical cable car or a glass-floored cabin! 

    Once you get to the summit, make sure to eat at the Maokong Tea House where you get a breathtaking view! Enjoy tea while you chow down on traditional Taiwanese food. Afterwards, make sure to try ice-cream at a nearby store because this will be unlike any other ice-cream you’ve tried! The ice-cream here is typically made with tea leaves; you can see spots of the tea leaves with the ice-cream. It adds a very unique flavor and aroma to the overall flavor. I was a huge fan of this! 

    1. Jiufen (AKA The “Spirited Away” town) 
    Jiufen Old Street Market
    Mount Keelung Trail

    Near the oceanside, the rainy city of Jiufen sits atop a cliff with a narrow street market for all kinds of food and shopping. It’s famous for its Old Street market where people are bustling. If you enjoy tea, I highly recommend visiting a tea shop within this market; they sell a Michel-star oolong tea that is everything you could ever want!

    This backdrop of this mystical place is frequently compared to the Hayao Miyazaki movie Spirited Away. It rains frequently throughout this city, so it’s common to have a dense fog surrounding the area. Nature truly surrounds you in this place; it feels like all of the elements are in harmony with one another. The ocean water brings calm; the crisp air fills lungs; the tree trunks bring security; and the heat and warmth is brought by its people. As much time as you spend around the busy areas, make sure to also enjoy the nature scenery by taking a walk up Mount Keelung Trail which is right by the Old Street market.

    1. Block Party (Row of Outdoor Bars)

    If you want to turn up and party, then Taipei is perfect for you! It has an unexpectedly loud and intense party scene where you could bar-hop all night. A lot of the bars are outside with anyone who’s passing by to quickly stop and get a drink from a cart. Typically, someone or some bar is blasting loud music, and many people are singing along. You’ll see a HUGE crowd of people with a drink in their hand, hanging out and having fun. If you want to participate, a good place to start is Fake Sober Taipei which is at the intersection of Songshou Road and Lane 20, Songshou Road. When you head towards this direction during a weekend evening, it’ll be impossible to miss the large crowd of people partying and having fun.

    Scenery

    Taipei 101
    Lungshan Temple

    The beauty of Taipei is that it ropes in both the old and the new. As a city that’s fast-growing and measuring up to the modern world, buildings from a few decades ago can vastly differ from with the new builds of today. Although many new buildings have been constructed, like the ostentatious Taipei 101, there are also ancient temples and older buildings all around. However,  I love that it still has its historic charm. And to have an exquisite view overlooking the city, I highly recommend going to the observation deck located on Bishan Road in the Neihu District. There’s stairs that lead up to a temple, andt the view during morning and night are both incredible! 

    Lifestyle

    The people of Taiwan were very friendly and open-minded. I met a few Taiwanese natives who were introduced by my husband’s friend who lives there. They were all very easygoing, kind, and easy to converse with. In addition, at the block parties, there would be what seemed like thousands of people on the streets hanging out. There were groups of people young and old, grungy and nerdy, loud and quiet. Everyone would be drinking and enjoying each other’s company, singing along to a Jay Chou song that was blasting from the speakers. (More information on where to find these block parties in the “activities” section above!) Overall, as a Korean-American, it was easy to blend in with the Taiwanese crowd, and I thoroughly had a great time!


  • Dreams are Made in Dubai (Blog with a Vlog!) 

    Dreams are Made in Dubai (Blog with a Vlog!) 

    Dubai, UAE

    What do you think of when you think of Dubai? Innovation? Luxury? Modernity? Dubai is truly an innovative city where eastern value meets western culture. The people are very welcoming, and the city is unbelievably futuristic. Dubai is a city that’s living in 2050, and the rest of the world needs to keep up with it! 

    Helpful Apps

    Uber is a fast and easy way to get around Dubai! Traveling by train through Dubai Metro works too; we purchased a ticket each time we went to the station.

    Google Maps is accurate and helpful to find your way around.

    Careem is the “everything” app in the Emirates. It includes rides, delivery, & payment.

    Food

    It’s hard to pinpoint exactly which foods were the most amazing in Dubai because it’s such a multicultural city. They have food of all different nationalities whether it’s Thailand’s Pad Thai, Chinese hotpot, or Italian pasta. I didn’t really try these dishes, so I cannot confirm whether the flavors are authentic. However, I did try various Arabic food– asking workers to serve whatever they recommended! This is a fun way to get out of your comfort zone and really immerse yourself in a new culture. Many of the Arabic dishes contained meat (especially lamb) and Middle-Eastern rice, which is typically cooked in various spices and colored yellow or orange. 

    However, I do recall that Indian food was absolutely phenomenal! This makes sense because there is a huge Indian population in Dubai. Indian cuisine was served at our hotel’s breakfast buffet, and I devoured EVERYTHING! They had an assortment of curries that were sweet or spicy or savory; soft, chewy roti that paired so well with the curry; and other side dishes that were tangy and refreshing (like yogurt). Typically, I’m not much of a breakfast person and would opt out of eating anything in the mornings. However, the Indian dishes were so delectable that I couldn’t miss the opportunity. 

    The Indian food at our hotel– looks simple but is divine!

    Activities

    Dubai is one of those places where there is something for anyone. Whether you’re young or old, nature-oriented or city-living, loves to relax or prefers to party, there are a PLETHORA of options! 

    1. Shopping

    If you like to spend the day shopping at a mall, wait until you see the malls in Dubai. It will make malls in every other country look like trash cans. The malls here are absolutely gorgeous; it’s like you’re entering a new, futuristic civilization. There are so many malls to choose from, but if there is one mall that you must visit, it is Dubai Mall. Located at the heart of downtown Dubai, it’s next to other famous landmarks like the Burk Khalifa (which is the tallest building in the world) and the picturesque Dubai Fountain. 

    If you’re heading to Dubai Mall, I recommend checking out their website to plan accordingly. These are not like regular malls! They offer other fun activities like an Aquarium & Underwater Zoo as well as an ice rink! Walking through the entire mall can easily be a full-day activity. Make sure to walk through the mall in its entirety because you’ll see that each section of the mall is designed and themed so differently. It really feels like you’re walking through a work of art! It’s hard to describe the eminence of it in words, so I tried my best to capture it in my vlog below! 

    1. Excursion to ATV Ride, Sand Surf, & Stargaze

    This is an all-day excursion that will last from morning to night! It’s exhausting, but SO worth it. In fact, it should be mandatory to partake in an excursion like this in Dubai. We booked this excursion through Viator and couldn’t be more happy with the overall process. The guide is extremely attentive and helpful; they’re knowledgeable about the entire city and able to answer any questions you might have. 

    For this excursion, we were taken to the red dunes where we could ATV ride and sandsurf in the red dunes. l was holding on for my life as I rode across the vast, mesmerizing sand. Afterwards, the group went to a camp to enjoy a BBQ buffet along with a live show of a traditional Arabic dance. There were a lot of other fun activities like camel-riding, horse-petting, and getting a beautiful henna design! 

    1. Jumeira Beach

    Jumeira Beach is an absolute spectacle famous for its man-made island in the shape of a palm tree! Fittingly, this area is known as “The Palm” and offers so many fun excursions for beach-lovers! Although I wasn’t able to go in the water, I deeply regret it because as I walked along the bridge, I noticed so many people playing in the water. 

    There was even an inflatable water park called “AquaFun”! They had an entire obstacle of inflatable toys including trampolines, slides, and so much more. I regretted so much that I didn’t bring my bathing suit on this trip. PLEASE DON’T MAKE THE MISTAKE I DID. Pack your swimsuits, sunblock, and sunglasses and head to Jumeira Beach for some fun in the water! However, as a caveat, make sure to also bring a change of clothes and/or a cover-up because institutions will deny entry if not dressed appropriately! Please be respectful and mindful of their customs.  

    1. Al Fahidi  

    For a change of pace, Al Fahidi showcases Dubai’s historic neighborhood. It’s a sharp contrast to Dubai’s modernity and innovation that it boasts everywhere else. The buildings in this neighborhood are rectangular and small; it’s made of materials like stone and soil. I love that the government preserved an area like this to highlight its historic heritage and traditional architecture. Nearby, there’s also an option to take a boat ride across Dubai Creek. This is a great and affordable option to get familiar with the old neighborhood! 

    1. Global Village and Miracle Garden

    Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to make it to Global Village due to jet lag. However, from the stories that I’ve heard, this is a must! It’s situated next to Miracle Garden, which looks like a child’s dreamland. Miracle Garden has towering shrubs that have been snipped into all sorts of animals and shapes. There’s also a world of smurfs, and you can visit them in their little town. 

    As for Global Village, it’s just like what you’d expect– a village of global cultures and cuisine. They usually open in the late afternoon (around 4PM) and will brighten the night sky with its neon, fluorescent lights. The food choices are diverse and extensive; they also offer entertainment and shows! It’s like traveling the world within a single night.

    Scenery

    Dubai is located in the Arabian Desert, but when you first get off the plane, that will be your last thought. It is incredibly scenic and lush with green grass that you’ll be questioning if the pilot landed in the correct destination. There’s beautiful flowers of all colors and assortments growing throughout the city. Gardens are maintained so well that it looks like a dreamy utopia. 

    Moreover, it is insanely clean. It’s probably one of the cleanest cities I’ve ever visited– which makes sense because the police will fine those with dirty cars! Also, given their culture, the people are very respectful of each other as well as their environment. Littering, graffiti, vagrancy and begging are all strictly prohibited leading to hefty fines or even imprisonment. 

    Lifestyle

    There’s rich and there’s wealth. Dubai is a city of wealth. It’s common to see people driving the most luxurious cars in the world or walking around wearing watches that are easily worth $500,000 USD. Due to how safe the city is, the people don’t have to worry about getting robbed! 

    Another unique quality of Dubai is that it feels much more westernized compared to other Muslim countries. In fact, even compared to other popular cities in the UAE, like Abu Dhabi, Dubai is much more lax when it comes to outerwear and etiquette. For example, I received looks of contempt when I wore a skirt in Abu Dhabi. However, in Dubai, no one seemed to mind. Since Dubai receives significantly more tourists than Abu Dhabi, the locals seem to be more comfortable with crop tops, skirts, or tank tops. 

    Dubai Vlog

  • A Korean-American’s Way Back Home to Seoul

    A Korean-American’s Way Back Home to Seoul

    Seoul, South Korea

    Seoul, South Korea is home for my soul (for obvious reasons). Although born in America, I am a daughter to immigrant, Korean parents. Growing up, I felt the clash between the eastern culture I was taught at home and the western culture that enveloped me in public. Understanding and resolving this dissonance allowed me to be the person I am today. I am proud to be Korean-American, and so this post is particularly meaningful for me. Although I didn’t grow up in Korea, I’ve visited several times throughout my life, and it has always felt like home.  

    Helpful Apps

    Kakao T is South Korea’s ride-sharing app (most similar to Uber).

    Naver Map is the best way to get around. I noticed that Google Map wasn’t always the most accurate especially when it came to the train or bus arrival/departure times! This app can also search for restaurants, activities, & more!

    If you’re planning to mostly use the train in South Korea, make sure to download EZL Top-Up because it’ll quickly show how much is left in your train card!

    Food

    Korean food is known for its SOUPS AND BROTHS! No wonder Netflix’s show about Korean cuisine is titled “A Nation of Broth.” We serve Seaweed Soup on birthdays; make a kimchi broth on cold days; and mix anything we have in the fridge to create a concoction we call Army Stew. Korea is truly a nation that loves soup. 

    Admittedly, these soups don’t necessarily have a complex flavor profile or frankly, require much skill to make. However, the warmth and heartiness of the broth allows you to melt and let all your guards down. These soups symbolize childhood memories and comfort for me, so obviously, I’m a little biased. However, here are some soups that I highly recommend for anyone visiting South Korea!

    1. Kalguksoo (which roughly translates to “knife-cut” noodle) 

    An umami flavored broth usually made with anchovy, chicken, or beef stock. With your desired protein, it is served with thick noodles and various veggies and ingredients like garlic, potato, and zucchini. It is a home-style meal that will fire up your tummy and leave you surely satisfied. 

    1. Budae Jjigae (AKA “Army Stew”)

    The history of this soup is that those in the army would scrounge for any ingredients they had, throw it in a pot, and make soup out of it. Thus, the name “Army Stew” came about. Despite its unappealing origin, the flavors are packed with spicy, savory, and umami. This is usually a favorite by visitors from all over the globe.

    1. Kimchi Jjigae 

    This is a common soup eaten and loved by all Koreans. It’s usually made with pork or spam. And although scarlet in color, I promise it’s not too spicy! In fact, it’s just the right amount of heat and savory to make you keep wanting more!

    Other Food Recommendations:

    1. Yangnyeom Gejang (spicy, marinated raw crab)

    Also, Korea is known for its affinity to spice! I’m sure we’ve all seen the viral challenge of eating the “Buldak Spicy Noodle” that led to the explosion of the other Buldak flavors like Tom Yum, Carbonara, Tomato, and sooo much more. (If you like spicy food, I highly recommend checking this ramen out!) Another dish I highly recommend is a delicacy that I’ve only ever seen in Korea: Yangnyeom Gejang (which is spicy, marinated raw crab). If you don’t like spice, there’s another variation called Ganjang Gejang (which is soy-sauce marinated raw crab). Both are insanely delicious. 

    2. Live Octopus

    Another famous place that is a must-visit in South Korea is the Gwangjang Market which is located in the Jongno District. I’ll be very candid and admit that a lot of the food here is duplicated at every stall. However, it has a lot of the basic Korean dishes and is a wonderful place to sit with friends on the heated bench, have a drink of Soju while chowing down on a variety of Korean appetizers. 

    Gwanjang Market
    Live Octopus

    However, if you’re on the hunt for more unique and “hard to find” dishes, this is an option for you!  These octopus are ALIVE and FRESH. The seller will take the beautiful cephalopod out of its tank and directly show you its sentience before chopping it up and presenting it on a plate with sesame oil, spicy gochujang sauce, topped with dried seaweed and sesame seeds. Fair warning– it still moves even after being chopped, so make sure to chew thoroughly! 

    3. Hotteok 

    Hotteok is a small, circular pancake filled with a brown, sugar syrup. It is typically eaten as a snack or dessert. Everyone in Korea is familiar with this snack– the young’ins, the parents, the aunties and uncles, and all of their grandparents. It was first brought to Korea in the 1800s and has remained as a favorite since.

    Activities

    1. Drinking / Partying

    One of the most popular activities for visitors who come to Korea is probably to go out and drink. There is a huge drinking culture here whether it’s with friends, family, or coworkers. Due to this huge drinking frenzy, a lot of bars will stay open until 6AM or so (which is usually when the first morning train starts). Drinks are also really cheap here with Soju bottles starting at 1,900₩ (which is roughly $1.50 USD). 

    1. Skin Treatment 

    If you never really cared about your skin, you might feel differently when in Korea because appearance is a huge priority. There are so many beauty tools and skincare products that are available at every corner. South Korea is at the cutting-edge of the latest and best tools needed to maintain and improve one’s appearance. Therefore, I recommend stocking up on products at Olive Young and maybe even reserving an appointment at a medspa to get a consultation to address any concerns. I personally had a consultation where I opted for the Pico-Toning and Pico-Laser! You can read about my experience here! The convenience and affordability in South Korea make this a must! Similar products or treatment would be double or triple the cost in the states, so how can you not?! 

    1. Walk the Streets of Hongdae or Itaewon

    There’s a lot of “hipster” and “cute” areas to explore in South Korea. However, I deliberately chose Hongdae or Itaewon because these areas are so multicultural and bustling. There’s a variety of shops, the best coffees, and amazing food to try. It’s easy to spend an entire day walking through these streets! Oftentimes, you can see street performers or food vendors lining the sidewalk too.

    In addition, as of December 2024, a popular and growing trend is to go to a photobooth. When I went, it seemed like there was a photobooth at every block. The last time I took a photobooth picture was when I was 16. However, the modern places will usually have an interesting theme (e.g., a bathroom layout), props to use (e.g., animal ears), and, the best part, a video that comes with the photo strip! It definitely made for a very unique and fun experience.

    Scenery

    Seoul is a huge city that is bustling with people and sparkling with neon lights. There are tall skyscrapers and buildings all over. With each year, it seems to become more and more modernized. For a city, it is fairly clean and quite safe– even for solo female travelers! Although there isn’t anything that stands out too much about the architecture, it is like your typical, modern city. 

    Lifestyle

    When I think of the people in Korea, I think of the motto, “Work hard, play hard.” Work culture in Seoul is quite intense with people often working 10+ hours a day. The average person seems very work-oriented and busy; the people are respectful but to themselves. Also, there is a distinct social hierarchy where people who are older or have a greater status must be respected. In fact, a more formal language is used for these individuals; if not, the person comes off very disrespectful.

    Despite the social hierarchy and cultural norms, it is common to see groups of people altogether being loud and boisterous. It is obvious that people enjoy spending time together and having fun with one another. On a typical day interacting with people, I felt a surface level of mutual politeness and respect with a deeper level of honesty and candor. 

  • I Went to Paris During The Peak of Asian Hate Crime…Here’s My Review

    I Went to Paris During The Peak of Asian Hate Crime…Here’s My Review

    Paris, France

    It might be easy to assume that if I could live anywhere in the world, it would be somewhere in Asia because I’m Asian. And honestly, I would think so too. It’s comfortable and convenient from the get-go. However, after coming to France, I would choose to build a new life in Paris if I could.

    Helpful Apps

    Google Maps is accurate and helpful in France!

    Uber is commonly used and makes traveling easy although the train is common too! If you’re planning to use the railway system, make sure to purchase tickets at the counter!

    Food

    A typical meal
    Escargot
    Caviar on blinis

    Are you afraid of snails or roe? WELL GET OVER IT. These are absolute delicacies in France. It’s common to see “escargot” and “caviar” listed on menus.They do not have any strange or fishy aftertaste; in fact, the flavors are earthy and aromatic. It’s typical to find restaurants serving escargot marinated in an emerald sauce of garlic and herb. The flavor profile is so perfect that you can eat a ton without getting sick of it. Hence, if I spotted it on the menu, I always had it. As for caviar, it’s typically used as a garnish to elevate the dish; it can be found on appetizers or entrees and eaten in a variety of ways. My favorite way is to eat it on blinis with creme fraiche.

    Caviar is so delicate that anything can alter its flavor profile; that’s why a mother of pearl spoon is used to gather it from its container (otherwise using metal cutlery would alter the flavor). I t h o r o u g h l y enjoyed these dishes whilst in France and continue to enjoy them in the states because these are favorites of mine! 

    I am impressed by how scrumptious French cuisine is. They are able to elevate simple dishes with various sauces and fresh ingredients. It never feels heavy or lacking; it is absolutely divine.

       

    Activities

    To be frank, the best activity in France is to walk around the city and see what you’ll come across. There are countless times where I would aimlessly wander and stumble upon a new discovery: a consignment shop with fashionable and vintage wear; a hamburger joint nestled in a multicultural avenue; or a beautiful park that will transport you into a world of magic. Each day is a surprise that will lead anyone into a realm of expansive curiosity. However, if there are absolute “musts” that I recommend, they would be…

    1. Palace of Versailles

    Everyone has heard of the Palace of Versailles. It is iconic and contentious. There is so much history here, and it is definitely worth visiting. It can easily take up an entire day to go through the hundreds of rooms within the palace and the garden maze that is outside. It is breathtakingly beautiful and simultaneously horrific thinking about the monarchy that shunned the rest of their people which eventually led to their overthrow. To walk the halls where kings and queens stepped is a transformative experience that is an absolute must! 

    1. The Louvre

    Again, this is another famous landmark that is world-renowned. Visitors from all over the world come to the Louvre to get a glimpse of the astonishing Mona Lisa. However, the Louvre also offers so much more from impressive marble sculptures to grandiose rooms with painted ceilings. Even for those who are uninterested in art, there is something that they will marvel at! I highly recommend buying tickets in advance through their website and expecting to stay the entire day. It is unbelievably spacious with 5 floors and an outdoor area; it can feel dizzying getting through all of the exhibitions. Art lovers can easily spend 2-3 days observing and admiring each work of art. However, for the regular patron, I recommend spending an entire day! 

    1. Seine River Cruise 

    There are several options for the Seine River Cruise: a romantic, boat dinner as the sun sets or a casual mass-group tour or a personalized, private ride with family and friends. Regardless of your choice, this excursion is incredible because of the ability to see so many monuments during this ride. It’s one of the best ways to get acquainted with the city as if you’re flirting with a potential date. Rides are offered throughout the day, but I recommend riding during sunset time because if timed correctly, it’ll have the most perfect view of the Eiffel Tower lit up at night. 

    Scenery

    Paris is alluring for so many reasons. It’s a cliche, but it’s so easy to get lost in this remarkable, multicultural city. There is tremendous history in all parts of the city. At Place de la Concorde stands the Luxor Obelisk, gifted by the viceroy of Egypt in the 1800s. Tuileries Garden welcomes guests with its picture-perfect landscape that looks like it sprung out of a fairytale. The Arc de Triomphe boasts Napoleon’s pride and might. Everything is so well-kept, especially given that it is a major city gaining millions of foot traffic each month. 

    Lifestyle

    I visited Paris for the first time in the summer of 2023. This was after the Covid-19 pandemic settled, and there’s been news of a lot of Asian hate crime throughout the world. This knowledge was unnerving, and I mentally prepared myself to face a lot of backlash while traveling through Europe. I tried to learn French phrases to say “stop” or “go away” thinking I’d have to use it at one point or another. However, I didn’t experience even the slightest form of racism let alone discomfort or rudeness!

    In fact, one of the main reasons that I could see myself settling in Paris is because of the lifestyle. It is totally and unequivocally, MY STYLE. The people are nonchalant, candid, and direct. Some people may be offended by their bluntness. However, I find it refreshing and comfortable. There’s no mind-games or ambiguity. What you see is what you get. They aren’t trying to be hurtful; it’s just a matter of being straightforward and honest. People who are more sensitive may not be accustomed to this culture. However, I absolutely adore it. 

    A funny story that epitomizes French culture is when I went to a Parisian cafe with my husband. When we arrived at the counter, the barista asked us what we would like. My husband was very indecisive, muttering to himself, “Should I get a vanilla latte… or should I get the mocha latte? Or maybe just an Americano?” The barista stopped him and with her heavy French accent flatly inquired, “What do you want?” She had a blank stare that peered past our souls. Immediately, my husband made a knee-jerk decision and went with any drink. This incident still makes me laugh because of how direct French people are. I found it amusing and refreshing; a place where I felt right at home. 

  • Just a Lost Asian Girl Roaming Through Italy (Milan, Florence, & Rome to be Exact)

    Just a Lost Asian Girl Roaming Through Italy (Milan, Florence, & Rome to be Exact)

    Milan, Florence, & Rome – Italy

    Italy is a country where you really want to visit ALL parts of it. It is rich with history which can be seen at every corner. It boasts some of the most beautiful architecture that’s been preserved since ancient times. In addition, its natural scenery is absolutely breathtaking. I am ITCHING to visit all corners from the Italian Alps to the Amalfi Coast. Unfortunately (but not unfortunately), for this trip, we visited Milan, Florence, and Rome!

    Helpful Apps

    Google Maps is common and accurate in Italy! It’s easy to use to get around and find things to do.

    Uber is common in Italy although traveling by bus or train is accessible too. For most buses, you can also pay directly with your credit or debit card by scanning on the payment machine when entering and leaving. Traveling by train will usually require purchasing tickets.

    Food

    I won’t beat around the bush. I will be so honest and say that Italian dishes are a bit too heavy for me… It IS delicious and filling, but I can really only handle them in smaller portions. As someone who loves cheese, I realized maybe I don’t love cheese enough because unfortunately, the cheesy pasta dishes were too much to handle. Everyday, multiple times a day, we would have pasta and pizza– or some kind of variation of each. However, as an Asian whose heart and stomach will always reside with Asian cuisine, I had to eat at least one Asian meal a day. Why? Because if I didn’t, I would actually get very cranky and not feel like myself until I had a spicy Korean soup or chilli-infused Thai noodle or some sort of fried rice. 

    With that said, it is an absolute MUST to try Italian dishes! In Rome, they are known for their carbonara pasta because they make it with water instead of milk or cream! Supposedly, this gives it a lighter flavor than other carbonara dishes (but for me, it still felt extremely heavy). 

    I also recommend the calzones which are folded pizzas! What a genius way to eat pizza comfortably as you walk around the city. Again, for me, I was able to only eat a few bites of this until I got really full and needed something else (like a spritzer) to balance out the heaviness of it. 

    Carbonara pasta made without cream or milk
    Calzones (i.e. folded pizza)

    If there is one restaurant that I highly recommend out of all places, it would be CiPasso in Rome. This restaurant is absolutely FANTASTIC! Unsurprisingly, it is also recommended by the Michelin Guide. The pasta here didn’t feel heavy and delicious appetizers were offered. I highly recommend the Truffle Crostini, which is a toasted bread with black truffle shaves on top of sheep cheese fondue, and the Lobster Linguine. I promise you won’t be disappointed.

    Activities

    Truthfully, I wish I spent more time in Italy because there is so much to see and do! We spent about 3 days in Milan, 4 days in Florence, and 5 days in Rome. However, more time in Florence and Rome would’ve been better because of the vast museums and historical sites to visit! 

    1. Millionaire Milan 

    In Milan, it is truly a shopper’s paradise. At The Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II, Italy’s oldest shopping gallery, you can find luxury shops all nestled inside the elegant galleria with its iconic window ceiling. If you’re not much of a shopper, the Duomo Museum is about a block away! This museum features works from renowned artists of the Renaissance period. As a caveat, visitors must be dressed modestly (i.e., shoulders and knees covered) in order to enter the museum! Overall, when I reminisce of Milan, I am reminded of opulence and grandeur.

    2. Fabulous Florence

    In Florence, there are so many museums, cathedrals, and palazzos to visit! The museums host historical paintings and sculptures from renowned artists of the Renaissance period. For example, the Academia Gallery is where Michaelangelo’s Statue of David resides. Since these museums are so popular, I highly recommend reserving tickets in advance! Otherwise, you’ll have to wait in line which can wrap around the entire city and easily eat up 2 or more hours of your day. If you weren’t able to get your hands on the tickets, there are other options that won’t require such a long wait (as of July 2023) such as visiting extravagant palazzos! I highly recommend Palazzo Pitti which is a palace once owned by the Medici family, an extremely wealthy and powerful family during the Renaissance period. Visiting these palazzos are just as interesting as the museums!   

    3.  Revered Rome

    Rome is a place that demands awe and attention. It is home to some of the most historic sites in THE WORLD. Of course, we all know about the Pantheon, Colosseum, and Forum; however, it is a completely different experience to go and witness these landmarks in-person! To sit in the Amphitheater where millions of Romans would cheer for gladiators or stand amidst the Forum where Romans would gather to debate and philosophize, is so humbling. Every inch of Rome showcases historic significance and magnificent design. Out of all the three cities that we visited, Rome is definitely a place to spend the most amount of time with all that it has to offer.

    While in Rome, it is an absolute MUST to visit the Vatican City. Just a short distance from all of the archaeological sites, you’ll arrive at the main area where an obelisk is erected at the center. Take a moment to immerse yourself in the historicity that surrounds you; you can be mesmerized by the architecture and artwork of the Sistine Chapel and St. Peter’s Basilica. However, since these are religious sites, please keep in mind to wear conservative clothing (as in shoulders and knees should be covered).

    Scenery

    All parts of Italy are absolutely beautiful. Given its popularity across the globe, the streets are constantly busy, and it’s common to see tour buses lining the streets. It is remarkable to see how the country managed to preserve pieces of its history so well! Whether they are regular buildings or impressive landmarks, the Renaissance period imprinted its everlasting effect which can be seen today with its grandiose size, impressive columns, and intricate details.  

    One region that left a particular mark on me is Florence. In Florence, River Arno runs through the city, and every building is colorful and enchanting. Multiple bridges are connected across the river. As you wander through the city, you’ll cross these bridges multiple times a day and every time feel a need to pause and absorb the breathtaking scenery. On the outskirts of town, there are stunning vineyards that weave through hills in the most vibrant green. I highly recommend going out to these vineyards if you can– they are easily accessible by bus! We opted for the Marchesi Antinori Vineyard, and it was absolutely astounding.

    It’s hard to choose which part of Italy is the most appealing because each area has its own specialty and is incredibly beautiful in its own way. If you’re torn with where to go in Italy, I recommend asking yourself what you want to do here. If you’re looking for shopping and glamour, I recommend Milan. If you want to learn about history and art, I recommend Rome. If you prefer the beach, then perhaps you should head south to Amalfi Coast! If you want to drink wine, then there are a multitude of vineyards to choose from! 

    Lifestyle

    I thoroughly enjoyed the Italian lifestyle! Life here seemed simple and peaceful. Most people were friendly and to themselves. Another common attitude I noticed was that of “I don’t give a f*ck” which honestly, I f*cked with. When going into grocery stores, the workers were nonchalant with a hint of disinterest. I honestly liked the straightforwardness and openness of Italians because it made me feel comfortable to also be candid and unreserved.